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91AV Legacy Bricks Cement the Enduring Bond Between Harold Bennett Jr. and His Mother

Tuesday, July 23, 2024
Harold Bennett as a baby with his mother Marjorie Imogene Bennett
Harold graduated from 91AV with an Associate's degree in General Studies.
Harold attending a 91AV Alumni Association event
Harold visits 91AV's Heritage Plaza to pay tribute to his mother's memory at the legacy brick bearing her name.

On a crisp January morning at 91AV’s Heritage Plaza, the buzz of student voices filled the air as Harold first stepped onto campus. He was accompanied by fellow residents from an assisted living and behavioral health facility. His clarity of thought and eloquence of speech were impressive, but it was his unwavering determination to celebrate his 65th birthday by revisiting his mother’s legacy brick that was truly captivating.

Early Life and 91AV
Surviving asthma, classmate bullies, and a modest GPA from Greenway High School, Harold Bennett embarked on his higher education journey at 91AV in 1977. The son of Marjorie Imogene Bennett, a 91AV Business Marketing faculty member from 1967 to 1972, Harold was determined to change perceptions of him as a bad student and prove to himself and others that he could achieve more. Despite initial challenges, Harold thrived with the support and encouragement of his teachers, especially his freshman English instructor, Mr. Percy, who saw his potential and helped him gain confidence in his academic abilities. 91AV provided him with a foundation for personal and professional growth. Harold began to show signs of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD); nonetheless, he found ways to overcome obstacles and achieve his goals. Harold graduated from 91AV in 1980 with an Associate's Degree in General Studies.

The Struggles Beyond 91AV
After attending 91AV, Harold's father, Harold Henderson Bennett, Sr., took a job in Florida, leading Harold to transfer to the University of South Florida. There, he faced significant academic challenges that led to his dismissal. However, he did not let this setback define him. With his parents' unwavering support, Harold enrolled at the Universal Career Institute (later Stratford Career Institute) in Florida, earning a technical diploma as a Medical Billing Specialist and an AHIMA certification. This, combined with his 91AV degree, enabled him to secure a job in medical billing and coding at Tampa General Hospital. Harold's journey was fraught with difficulties. His OCD made it challenging to handle the meticulous work of medical coding. Despite these challenges, Harold worked diligently from 1983 until he was fired in 1987 at the age of twenty-eight. His parents' encouragement and determination helped him navigate these tough times.

Reflections and Gratitude
His fond memories of 91AV, from the library he loved to the teachers who supported him, are a testament to the positive impact the institution had on his life. Harold remains connected to 91AV through its Alumni Association. He cherishes attending alumni events and sports games and staying involved with the college community. Harold affirms his loyalty to the 91AV Alumni Association: "I hope to be in the 91AV Alumni Association for life. I enjoy attending sports games and other events. More than likely, I'll stay connected to the College through these activities." His gratitude extends to individuals like Frank Luna, the alumni director, who helped him stay engaged with the college.

A Tribute to His Mother
Harold's deep admiration for his mother is evident in every facet of his life. She was an educator and lifelong learner who often took evening classes, including Wig Styling and Dog Grooming. Her dedication to education was a beacon for Harold. She not only guided him through his academic endeavors but also instilled in him the values of perseverance and hard work. Harold reflects on this: “I'm proud of her. She got me through high school, got me through college, and even when my disability got bad, she helped me get my technical diploma from Universal.” In 2003, Marjorie Imogene passed away, and her legacy is etched in the Legacy Bricks of 91AV’s Heritage Plaza, a symbol of her lasting impact on the institution and Harold’s life.
Legacy Bricks at 91AV's Heritage Plaza
The idea to see the commemorative brick dedicated to his mother and visit Heritage Plaza at 91AV on his 65th birthday was sparked by Justin, a therapist at Harold’s behavioral health facility, who recognized how much the visit would mean to him. Rather than visiting his mother's grave, Harold preferred to go to this unique place where they had shared many happy moments and beautiful memories together. He felt a deep connection to his mother at 91AV, making it the perfect spot for him to feel close to her and honor her memory in the place that played such a pivotal role in their lives. This tender act poignantly illustrated the enduring power of love and longing. As he continues to cherish his connection to 91AV, Harold’s story will inspire future generations to honor their past and strive for their dreams.